Make Him Love You

Do you do the wrong things when trying to make a guy fall for you? Are there mistakes that you have made with your past boyfriends? Does your typical relationship last only a couple of months and then fizzle out? If so, you are probably making the common mistakes that should simply be prohibited when trying to make a guy fall for you.

Talk rudely about or to other people. Kindness should be a part of who you are. You reap what you sow, and this principle is definitely seen in love relationships. Think of a couple that are truly in love with each other. They are probably kind people who don’t talk rudely in general. This includes talk to and about friends, acquaintances, work associates, and even waitresses.

This principle is in effect even he isn’t around. Your behavior, especially as you get serious, will eventually get back to him. So try your hardest to be kind to everyone you meet. And never talk badly to him about other people. Save the discussion about your problems with your mother until after he’s in love with you.

The second common mistake is to talk bad about yourself. Nothing is more unattractive than a girl who talks negatively about herself. Even if he is totally attracted to you and he loves the way you look, this can be reversed by your own disparaging words. If he hears you saying over and over how you don’t like the way you look, pretty soon he probably won’t either.

Lastly, don’t talk negatively to him. If you talk down to him, complain about things he says or does, or are constantly criticizing him, he will start to feel bad about himself, and associate those feelings with you. He will surely not want to spend time together with the source of his negative emotions.

Be careful not to constantly nag your man. This type of behavior may illicit the actions that you want, but they will sabotage your relationship in the process. Little by little, he will start to despise and resent your nagging.

Once you have been able to clean up your thoughts and your language, you will find your guy desiring to spend more and more time together with you: his newer, kinder girlfriend. You have made your guy fall for you, and made the world a better place at the same time.